The other day, maybe it was late last week, I came across an article online about how being too nice was a turnoff to a lot of women. So, that got me thinking, "Am I too nice."
I would like to think that I have a generally agreeable disposition, even though at times I can be a bit of an arrogant prick. I like to think of myself as a nice guy, but am I putting forth the image of a doormat?
Tough question to really answer on one's own I imagine. I guess this is just part of the entire male/female gender difference that I will never understand. Well fuck it, I just don't understand women at all. I cannot understand women. I was born with a penis, so it is biologically impossible for me to understand the opposite sex.
Guys, for the most part, we are simple creatures. If you feed us, fuck us, and let us take a shit in peace, we are pretty damn content if you ask me. But women? I think they need to come with an manual.
And Diary, I do not mean this entry to bash women in any way shape or form. I love them, and I love everything about them. I just do not understand them.
My female friends all say that ultimately they want the guy that will treat them well, not like a piece of meat. Um, hello, that is the type of guy I am, but, of course, I happen to have the big scarlet D branded into me, so, it appears that I come back into the game with a significant disadvantage. But, this is all random bullshit and doesn't get to what I actually asked in the first place.
Am I too nice? You know, I don't think I know if it is possible for me to actually be the asshole. I mean sure, I have my moments, but to be an asshole to women, treat them like shit, like a piece of meat, that I don't think I could ever do. It is just not how I am built.
I like treating women with respect. I like being the protector. I like to open doors, offer compliments, treat them when we go out if it is reasonable (no, sorry, this does not include going to Tiffany right now), and I like to let them know they are appreciated for who they are, not what they could be in the future.
But, this really hasn't gotten me anywhere except put into the dreaded "friend zone."
Interesting isn't it? So, am I going to finish last? (Well, if you are lucky I am)